Messaging

Communication is important. Communication is not easy. But there are some tools that make it easier, albeit at times more overwhelming.

In the States it was pretty easy. You send a text message in the messaging app. If that was too long, you send an email. Although I am not sure the generation following mine knows what email is.

When I was a kid…

But since we moved abroad our messaging tools have hunkered down and multiplied. This is good because it allows us to continue communication with those in the States, and begin communication with those in other parts of the world. It just gets a little confusing when conversations start buzzing.

Those with iDevices still use the good old iMessaging, but not everyone has followed wisdom’s path and purchased one.

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The first app we had to add was WhatsApp, because apparently the USA is the only country to still send text messages.

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Then we added GoogleHangouts so we could keep our US number and still send text messages to those without iMessaging or WhatsApp. (Which makes it really nice as well to make phone calls to the States!)

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Then there are some hardcore Facebook users who swear by the Facebook message app. Maybe it is somehow tied to your Candy Crush score, I don’t know.

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We have so many options to choose from to try to maintain communication. But oh for the good ol’ days of simply using that ancient bit of email technology…

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A Baby Shower in Spain

I received a text on Thursday from a friend which said, “El sábado por la tarde hacemos un baby shower. Estais invitados los tres.”

Saturday afternoon we are having a baby shower. You three are invited.

The fact that he used English words tells me how natural this is for Spanish culture.

We had a great time and were able to meet many new people. It was an honor to be invited to something like this and be brought along side other family and friends.

The only downside was that Tanzen broke their clothes hanger because she thought they were monkey bars. You can’t win them all…

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Jesus is enough

“Though most spiritual seekers start their search afraid of disappointment, Jesus says that he will always be infinitely more than anyone is looking for. He will always exceed our expectations; he will be more than we can ask for or imagine.”

(Keller, Encounters with Jesus, Kindle 347)

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What do you do on Sundays?

One of the frequent questions that we are asked, and for good reason, is “what do you do on Sundays?”
Here is the reasoning behind the question:

If we are trying to plant churches, that probably means there isn’t one that we are part of right now.

Not good.

This absence of a church leaves us with a few options.

1. We could ignore the idea of regularly meeting together with believers. Bad idea.

2. We could go to the Brethren church, or the Pentecostal church. We have attended services before, but this could cause confusion on various levels.

3. We could rent a building and start hosting services, inviting people to come to church. There are several problems with this approach.

  • A building isn’t a church, it can only house the gathered body of believers which is the local church.
  • We would just be duplicating our own little style of services that could be very unlike what a church gathering would end up looking like in our context, and nearly impossible to reduplicate without another person just like us.
  • Inviting people to “church” in our context means, “would you like to go to Mass with us?” Not exactly the message we are trying to get across.
  • Etc.

 

Here is the option we have chosen:IMG_8672
Sunday mornings we meet at alternating homes (between our home and the Templetons). Our desire is to feed our souls, encourage other believers in the gospel, and proclaim the gospel to those who have yet to believe it. In order to do that we:

  • Read Scripture
  • Sing Scripture
  • Pray Scripture

Our normal gathering begins with prayer and a couple songs geared toward teaching verses and biblical truths to our girls. Then one of us walks through the chapter we are all studying (currently we are working through the book of Luke) in a way that the little girls can understand. After a few more songs (and handing out snacks to keep he little ones happy!) we read through the same chapter together. The discussion is led by either Jon or I, depending on whose home we are in that given Sunday. The main questions we discuss revolve around the context, observation, meaning, and application of that chapter. We end our time of study with more singing and prayer. This is done in both English and Spanish, depending on who is in attendance. We finish our morning by sharing a meal together, seeking to bridge the conversation over into our time around the table.

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It may sound fairly static, but we are adapting as we go. Nearly each Sunday we change something, or ask the question, “How should we adjust our time?” As more people join us, the decoration will change, but the structure will not. We will continue to read Scripture, sing Scripture, and pray Scripture.

 

Crucial Conversations

I just finished listening to:

Patterson, Kerry, and Joseph Grenny. Crucial Conversations Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High, Second Edition. 2 edition. New York: Business, 2011.

 

There were many helpful suggestions in the book. Here are some questions I need to ask myself during crucial conversations:

  • What do I really want?
  • Am I engaged in silence, violence, or dialogue?
  • How can I make this conversation safe?
  • What stories am I telling myself about this person that are skewing my perspective?
  • What is the common ground we share on this topic?

Perhaps you have read it, or another book similar to it. What would you add?